I know... my blog tonight is kinda... you know, kinda serious... (obvious naman sa title... joke)
My girlfriend hates and get mad at me if I lie... let's face it, No one like being told by false information or made-up stories.
As I type this blog, I suddenly remember the question... the question asked by my girlfriend that I can't even answer.
Now, I will answer that questions, and also those people keep asking "WHY DO PEOPLE LIE?" and when will be a lie forgivable, and unforgivable.
According to David L. Smith, Ph.D., associate professor of philosophy at the University of New England, in Biddeford, Maine that "Lying is a natural trait of a human, This trait lets you manipulate the way you want to be seen by others.”.
Most lies aren’t meant to be hurtful to others; rather, they’re meant to help the one doing the fibbing. These are the six top ways people lie.
Six types of lying
1. Lying to save face
How does it sound like?
"Pare, pasensya late ako dahil late ako... Natraffice ako kanina eh"
Why do they do this?
Just to save their ass from some punishment or embarrassment. Self-preservation kung baga. Usually used in parties, offices, school, and meetings.
2. Lying to shift blame
How does it sound like?
"Hindi kaya ako yung umutot, sya kaya!"
Why do they do this?
To avoid bigger problems in their life that they blame others from their faults. Gawain ng mga Irresponsible people.
3. Lying to avoid confrontation
How does it sound like?
"Wow, Your art work is beautiful... but we've chose the first artwork"
"you have a great personality, but you need to improve"
"you have a great personality, but you need to improve"
Why do they do this?
To excuse themselves from uncomfortable conversation from a person
4. Lying to get one's way
How does it sound like?
"ha? speeding? sir, pasensya na, sira ata speedometer ko kaya di ko napansin"
Why do they do this?
For personal gain. But when a lie like this is uncovered, the recipient is unlikely to be charitable. And the more hurtful the lie is to the person on the receiving end, the less it’s likely to be forgiven. Palusot~!!!!
5. Lying to be nice
How does it sound like?
"Ang sarap ng luto mo"
(kahit sunog at pritong itlog lang to)
(kahit sunog at pritong itlog lang to)
Why do they do this?
To avoid to hurt others feeling... alam ko nagawa nyo na 'to
but real friends won't do this.
but real friends won't do this.
6. Lying to Make oneself feel better
How does it sound like?
“Eating my kids’ French fries doesn’t count.”
“I’ll charge this stuff now because I’m going to pay off the credit-card bill as soon as I get my bonus.”
Why do they do this?
To reassure themselves. But when people start to believe their self-deceptions, it can snowball, which is especially dangerous. AL-IZ-WELL ang peg lang XDDD
White lies are considerable... nagpapalusot ka lang naman... forgivable pa yun kasi nasa minor pa yun....
the time when a lie is unforgivable pag ginagamit mo ang ibang tao, nang"gagago" ka, pinapaasa mo yung iba, kinoconsider mo ang sarili mo na hindi ikaw, ginagawan mo ng story ang magulang mo na hindi totoo.
the time when a lie is unforgivable pag ginagamit mo ang ibang tao, nang"gagago" ka, pinapaasa mo yung iba, kinoconsider mo ang sarili mo na hindi ikaw, ginagawan mo ng story ang magulang mo na hindi totoo.
for example: "sundalo ako" "tatay ko si barack" or "may humvee ako sa bahay"
to those na mga nagsisinungaling...
Everytime na nagsisinungaling kayo, sarili nyo ang linoloko nyo...
... pag dating sa huli, magsisisi kayo dahil dalawa lang ang maniningil sa inyo...
Ang taong pinagsinungalingan mo... at karma...
Everytime na nagsisinungaling kayo, sarili nyo ang linoloko nyo...
... pag dating sa huli, magsisisi kayo dahil dalawa lang ang maniningil sa inyo...
Ang taong pinagsinungalingan mo... at karma...
well, that's it for now~! thank you for reading my blog/article~!
Maraming thank you~!!!
(my blog is based on realsimple's article)
(my blog is based on realsimple's article)
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